Mohd Yazri Bin Yahaya

New Beginning of Life

Dedicated To:

Noriah Binti Hj. Shahid Ali

Faizul Amir Bin Ahmad Sabar

Sunday, May 31, 2009

Klang, Selangor Darul Ehsan, Malaysia.

Firstly, I just want to tell Noriah, how honoured I am today, to says something on her special day. The sum which two married people owe to one another defies calculation.

It is an infinite debt which can only be discharged through all eternity.

Marriage is ever made by destiny. Two human loves make one divine. A happy marriage is a new beginning of life a new starting point for happiness and usefulness. Marriage is the perfection of what love aimed at ignorant of what it sought. When you make a sacrifice in marriage you're sacrificing not to each other, but to unity in a relationship.

One should believe in marriage as in the immortality of the soul. Marriage is about two souls but with a single thought and two heart but beat as one.

Over the blog:

I’m sorry my dear friend, I couldn't be there on your wedding day, but I really feel so happy for you. Here I wishing you, all the best of health, happiness and prosperity for your married.

Finally, to keep your marriage brimming with love in the wedding cup, whenever you're wrong please admit it but whenever you're right please shut up.

"Happy Married Life"

Decision Making

Decision making based only on human nature frequently produces serious consequences. When our selfish impulses influence choices disaster soon follows. When we exclude God from our decision making we intentionally ignore God’s instructions. We all make costly mistakes decisions that we wish we never made.

One of the most difficult factors in decision making is humbling ourself admitting that you don’t know it all or that you’ve failed. Some people struggles with decision making. The decision of our next car, a potential career change, or a commitment to a long term relationship. If only our decisions were risk free guaranteeing us the best desired outcome.

Decision making forces us to:
Accept responsibility for the success or failure of our choice. Experience first hand how that decision helps or harms others. Identify the most reliable source of wisdom that equips us for making those decisions.

The Beauty of People

When dealing with difficult people,

it is helpful to know what drives them.

A difficult person falls into three basic categories:

One who drains others :
By nature, their depressing,

and negative attitude characterizes them as “life suckers.”

They frequently aggravate and deplete us.

They complain, but refuse to accept solutions,

or take steps to improve their circumstances.

One who disrespects others :

Through their constant criticism,

we find ourselves consistently on the defense.

Their blunt, even cruel remarks,

frequently leave scars that linger as abuse.

They may be unsympathetic,

and practice excessive rudeness,

and ridicule at our expense.

One who dominates others :

Any aggressive nature which dominates,

our workplace or home through intimidation is destructive.

Boldness and assertiveness give way to a meanness,

that ignores the harmful consequences.

The dominating person believes “might is right.”

Challenging Moments

What is the secret for dealing with difficult people?

It may be a family member, co-worker,

or salesperson that causes our frustration.

Personalities collide, tempers flair,

and we say and do things that we later regret.

There are some steps we can take,

that will not only guard us against further stress,

but help us establish a healthy attitude,

during those challenging moments.
Difficult people cultivate anxiety,

resentment, or feelings of inadequacy.

At times, a brief encounter with that,

disruptive individual ruins our entire day.

Any long term relationships,

with difficult people create tension,

that mounts with each passing day.

Regardless of the length of the confrontation,

we often find ourselves feeling miserable.

One Moment

The Moment you are in Tension,

you will lose your Attention,
then you are in total Confusion,
and you will feel Irritation.

Then you will spoil personal Relation,
ultimately, you won't get Cooperation,
then you will make things Complication,
then your blood pressure may raise Caution.

And you may have to take Medication

Instead, understand the Situation
And try to think about the Solution
Many problems will be solved by Discussion.

This will work out better in your Profession,

don't think it's my free Suggestion,
it's only for your Prevention,
if you understand my Intention.

Hopefully, you will never come again to Tension.

True Meaning of Life

Love starts with a smile, grows with a kiss,

and ends with a tear.
Don't cry over anyone who won't cry over you.
Good friends are hard to find, harder to leave,

and impossible to forget.

The hardest thing to do is watch the one you love,

love somebody else.
Don't let the past hold you back,

you're missing the good stuff.
Life's short. If you don't look around once in a while,

you might miss it.

A best friend is like a four leaf clover,

hard to find and lucky to have.
If you think that the world means nothing, think again.

You might mean the world to someone else.
When it hurts to look back, and you're scared to look ahead,

you can look beside you and your best friend will be there.

True friendship never ends.
Some friends are forever.
Good friends are like stars, you don't always see them,

but you know they are always there.
Don't frown, you never know

who is falling in love with your smile.

What do you do when the only person who can make you stop crying,

is the person who made you cry?
Nobody is perfect until you fall in love with someone,

Isn't that the truth?

Everything is okay in the end.

If it's not okay, then it's not the end.

I've Learned

I've learned that we don't have to change friends,

if we understand that friends change.

I've learned that no matter how good a friend is,

they're going to hurt you every once in a while,

and you must forgive them for that.

I've learned that true friendship continues to grow,

even over the longest distance.

I've learned that it's taking me a long time,

to become the person I want to be.

I've learned that you should always,

leave loved ones with loving words.
It may be the last time you see them.

I've learned that sometimes the people,

you expect to kick you when you're down,

will be the ones to help you get back up.

I've learned that sometimes when,

I'm angry I have the right to be angry,

but that doesn't give me the right to be cruel.

I've learned that maturity has more to do,

with what types of experiences you've had,

and what you've learned from them,

and less to do with how many years you have lived.

I've learned that it isn't always,

enough to be forgiven by others.

Sometimes you have to learn to forgive yourself.
I've learned that no matter how bad your heart is broken,

the world doesn't stop for your grief.

I've learned that our background and circumstances,

may have influenced who we are,

but we are responsible for who we become.

I've learned that just because two people argue,

it doesn't mean they don't love each other,

and just because they don't argue,

it doesn't mean they do love each other.

I've learned that two people,

can look at the same thing,

and see something totally different.

I've learned that your life can be,

changed in a matter of hours,

by people who don't even know you.

I've learned that even when,

you think you have no more to give,

when a friend cries out to you,

you will find the strength to help.

I've learned that the people you care about most in life,

are sometimes taken from you too soon.

What Made Us Blind?

Too often we don't realize,

what we have until it is gone,

too often we wait too late to say,

I'm sorry and I was wrong.

Sometimes it seems we hurt the ones,

we hold dearest to our hearts,

and we allow foolish things,

to tear our lives apart.

Far too many times we let,

unimportant things into our minds,

and then it's usually too late,

to see what made us blind.

So be sure that you let people know,

how much they mean to you,

take that time to say the words,

before your time is through.

Be sure that you appreciate,

everything you've got,

and be thankful for the little things,

in life that mean a lot.

The Lamp of Love

Dedicated To:
Ismimuhamad Bin Hj. Idris

Rosfadilah Binti Zainal Abidin

Saturday, January 3, 2009

Durian Tunggal, Melaka, Malaysia.

Happy marriages begin when we marry the one we love,

and they blossom when we love the one we married.
My greatest wish for the two of you is that through the years,

your love for each other will so deepen and grow,

that years from now you will look back on this day,

your wedding day.

As the day you loved each other the least.
It doesn’t matter where you get your appetite,

as long as you eat at home.
May the best day of your past be the worst day of your future.
Marriage, a community consisting of a master, a mistress,

and two slaves making in all, two.
May the roof above you never fall in,

and may you both never fall out.
To the lamp of love may it burn brightest in the darkest hours.

And never flicker in the winds of trial.
May for better or worse be far better than worse.
The man or woman you really love will never grow old to you.

Through the wrinkles of time,

through the bowed frame of years.

You will always see the dear face and feel.

The warm heart union of your eternal love.
May you have many children,

and may they grow mature in taste and healthy in color.

"Happy Married Life"

My Safety Info

Issued Friday, December 5, 2008

Cribs Safety

1) Its slats should not be more than 2 3/8 inches apart to avoid trapping of baby's head.

2) Neither the headboard nor the footboard should have any cutouts as this can lead to entrapment of the baby's head.

3) Cribs should not have a corner post, as loose clothing may become snagged on these and lead to choking.

4) If you are using a newly bought mattress, please make sure that all plastic covering is removed as this can lead to suffocation to your baby.

5) The mattress should fit well. If you are able to insert two fingers between the mattress and the sides and the ends of the crib, CHANGE TO A NEW ONE that fits snugly. This is to ensure that your baby cannot slip into the space.

6) When your baby is able to pull to a standing position, make sure that the height of the side rail is not more than ¾ of the baby's height. This is to prevent your baby from falling out either by leaning against the side or by pulling himself over it.

Toys Safety

1) Toys are fun and they help children learn about themselves, their environment and the people around. Unfortunately, some toys can be dangerous.

2) Poorly constructed toys or toys are inappropriate for your child's level of development can lead to tragic results.

3) Always remember that the supervision is the most important safety factor that you can provide to protect a child from harm, and that the safety and age appropriateness are the most important consideration when selecting a toy for your children or any children under your care.

4) Always remove and immediately discard all packaging before giving it to baby or small child.

5) Supervise your child's play. Proper toy construction and selection is not enough.It is your responsibility to ensure your child is playing in safe environment.

6) Care for your toys. Check all your toys regularly for breakage or potential hazards such as a loose part which could be a choking danger.

7)Toys also must be non toxic and non flammable as they can cause hazard to the children.

Issued Friday, December 12, 2008

General Home Safety
1) All household cleaners, chemicals, pesticides and medicines are stored in child resistant containers and out of children’s reach.

2) Matches and lighters are stored out of children’s sight and reach.

3) Smoke alarms are installed on each level and in each sleeping area.

4) A fire escape plan is in place and has been practiced.

5) Electrical outlets are covered.

6) Electrical cords are out of traffic areas.

7) Counters and tables have rounded corners or corner covers or corner guards.

8) Sharp objects and tools are stored safely.

9) Throw rugs have non-slip backing.

10) Gates block toddler access to gates.

11) No baby walker in the house.

12) Drapery and window blind cords are out of reach.

13) Garbage containers have secure lids

Bedroom Safety
1) Beds are away from windows to prevent falls.

2) The mattress fits tightly against all four sides of thebed.

3) Children under six are never allowed on the top bunk of the bed.

4)The ladder is attached safely to the bunk bed.

5)Electrical cords are out of traffic areas.

Kitchen Safety
1)Hot liquids are always are out of children’s reach.

2) Pot handles and cords on the stove are out children’sreach.

3) Small appliances are out of children’s reach andunplugged when not in use.

4) A working fire extinguisher is handy.

5) Place mats are used instead of table cloths.

Bathroom Safety
1) Children are always supervised when in the bathroom.

2) A safety mat is used in the tub.

3) Bathroom door can be unlocked from both sides.

4) Medicines, cleansers and soaps are stored out of reach.

5) Buckets are always kept empty after use.

6) The floor of the bathroom is not made of slippery materials.

Issued Friday, December 19, 2008

Falls
1) Always use a ladder or step stool to retrieve anything above shoulder level.

2) Ladders, or step stools, should be sturdy and not have any broken rungs or legs.

3) Do not lean too far back in chairs. This may result in over-balancing and a fall.

4) Never use ladder substitutes such as chairs or boxes.

5) Be sure the pathway is clear before you walk.

6) Secure electrical cords and wires away from walkways.

7) Avoid excessive bending, twisting, and leaning backward while seated.

Filing Cabinets or Bookcases
1) Fill the second drawer from the bottom in a four-drawer filing cabinet before any of the others, to weight the bottom and to prevent it from tilting over.

2) Return drawers and doors to the closed position after use to prevent bumping and tripping. Never open more than one drawer or door at a time.

3) Place file cabinets where their use will not interfere with traffic patterns.

4) Secure cabinets or bookcases taller than 64 inches to the wall to prevent toppling over.

Electrical Equipment
1) Frayed electrical cords, loose or broken electrical wires, broken outlet covers and receptacles, and worn or broken electrical plugs are dangerous and should be repaired or replaced before being used again.

2) Moisture and electricity do not mix. Placing liquids on or around electrical equipment (such as computers, radios, copiers, printers or microwaves) increases the risk of electrocution if the liquid spills and gets into the electrical equipment. This includes wet or sweaty hands.

3) Do not block electrical panel doors. If an electrical malfunction should occur, the panel door and anything else in front of the door will become very hot.

4) Electrical panel doors should always be kept closed, to prevent "electrical flashover" in the event of an electrical malfunction.

Issued Friday, December 26, 2008

Carbon Monoxide Poisoning: The Silent Killer
Carbon monoxide (CO) poisoning occurs when carbon monoxide gas is inhaled. CO is a colorless, odorless, highly poisonous gas that is produced by incomplete combustion. It is found in automobile exhaust fumes, faulty stoves and heating systems, fires, and cigarette smoke.

Other sources include woodburning stoves, kerosene heaters, improperly ventilated water headers and gas stoves, and blocked or poorly maintained chimney flues. CO interferes with the ability of the blood to carry oxygen. The result is headache, nausea, convulsions, and finally death by asphyxiation.

About Carbon Monoxide Poisoning
1) Unlike many gases, it is odourless, colourless, tasteless and non-irritating. Red blood cells absorb the gas over 200 times more readily than oxygen.

2) As levels of carbon monoxide in the air rise, this gas replaces oxygen in the bloodstream. As a result, body tissues are damaged and may die of a lack of oxygen.

3) The most common symptoms of carbon monoxide poisoning are respiratory difficulties and impairing of visual perception.

4) Have a reliable mechanic check the exhaust system of your car once a year to check for leaks and damaged pipes. Have the system checked if the sound of the exhaust is suddenly different or if you hear any funny noises.

5) When driving in heavy traffic it is also advisable to have a slight opening in the windows, especially with the air-conditioning on. Do this when you are caught in heavy traffic or when the car is stationary for long hours.

6) If you park your car in a closed garage, carbon monoxide can rapidly build up while your engine is running with the garage doors closed. Never run your car in a garage unless the outside door is open to provide ventilation.

7) Have your vehicle regularly tuned to ensure that there is proper combustion in the engine. This will reduce the level of carbon monoxide emissions.

8) If the car has a catalytic converter, make sure it is in proper working condition. Removing the catalytic converter can also increase carbon monoxide levels.