I've Learned

I've learned that we don't have to change friends,
if we understand that friends change.

I've learned that no matter how good a friend is,
they're going to hurt you every once in a while,
and you must forgive them for that.

I've learned that true friendship continues to grow,
even over the longest distance.

I've learned that it's taking me a long time,
to become the person I want to be.

I've learned that you should always,
leave loved ones with loving words.
It may be the last time you see them.
I've learned that sometimes the people,
you expect to kick you when you're down,
will be the ones to help you get back up.

I've learned that sometimes when,
I'm angry I have the right to be angry,
but that doesn't give me the right to be cruel.

I've learned that maturity has more to do,
with what types of experiences you've had,
and what you've learned from them,
and less to do with how many years you have lived.

I've learned that it isn't always,
enough to be forgiven by others.
Sometimes you have to learn to forgive yourself.
I've learned that no matter how bad your heart is broken,
the world doesn't stop for your grief.

I've learned that our background and circumstances,
may have influenced who we are,
but we are responsible for who we become.

I've learned that just because two people argue,
it doesn't mean they don't love each other,
and just because they don't argue,
it doesn't mean they do love each other.

I've learned that two people,
can look at the same thing,
and see something totally different.

I've learned that your life can be,
changed in a matter of hours,
by people who don't even know you.

I've learned that even when,
you think you have no more to give,
when a friend cries out to you,
you will find the strength to help.

I've learned that the people you care about most in life,
are sometimes taken from you too soon.

What Made Us Blind?

Too often we don't realize,
what we have until it is gone,
too often we wait too late to say,
I'm sorry and I was wrong.

Sometimes it seems we hurt the ones,
we hold dearest to our hearts,
and we allow foolish things,
to tear our lives apart.

Far too many times we let,
unimportant things into our minds,
and then it's usually too late,
to see what made us blind.

So be sure that you let people know,
how much they mean to you,
take that time to say the words,
before your time is through.

Be sure that you appreciate,
everything you've got,
and be thankful for the little things,
in life that mean a lot.

The Lamp of Love

Dedicated To:
Ismimuhamad Bin Hj. Idris
Rosfadilah Binti Zainal Abidin
Saturday, January 3, 2009
Durian Tunggal, Melaka, Malaysia.

Happy marriages begin when we marry the one we love,
and they blossom when we love the one we married.
My greatest wish for the two of you is that through the years,
your love for each other will so deepen and grow,
that years from now you will look back on this day,
your wedding day.

As the day you loved each other the least.
It doesn’t matter where you get your appetite,
as long as you eat at home.
May the best day of your past be the worst day of your future.
Marriage, a community consisting of a master, a mistress,
and two slaves making in all, two.
May the roof above you never fall in,
and may you both never fall out.
To the lamp of love may it burn brightest in the darkest hours.

And never flicker in the winds of trial.
May for better or worse be far better than worse.
The man or woman you really love will never grow old to you.

Through the wrinkles of time,
through the bowed frame of years.
You will always see the dear face and feel.

The warm heart union of your eternal love.
May you have many children,
and may they grow mature in taste and healthy in color.

"Happy Married Life"

Happy New Year 2009

Dedicated To:
My Family (Mom, Along, Adik & Jaja)
All My Friends & Blog Visitors

First of all a very Happy New Year to my visitors, and everyone else out there in Malaysia. Last year has been a great one for our nation. Our nation's goal of full sovereignty will be furthered through such means as this massage.

This coming year then, let us look forward to a brighter world. Let us hope for peace, prosperity and security to return to our giant neighbor nation and to the world in these troubled times. Let us hope for peace, prosperity and a bright future for all mankind, and for a peaceful coexistence with this planet we call home.

Let seek ever to expand Malaysia's role in both the world of small nations and the world of large nations. We all have much to contribute to each other. Let us continue to explore the heavens and the earth around us, for knowledge is indeed power. As always, let us continue to strive, to grow, to explore, to live and to learn.

And so, these things said, let us move forward. Every year is a new beginning for Malaysia, and every year brings new opportunities. Malaysia is among the greatest of the small nations of the world, a beacon to those that seek self-government and sovereignty. We never hesitate to lead, and to set the example.

For almost fifty two years, now Malaysia has grown and prospered. This pace continues unabated, and will continue for many long years.In this coming year, then, I speak to all Malaysians and wish to you all the best. I pledge to continue to give and share with you
as best as I can.

I am not the nation, we all are. And together we shall continue to build toward a great future for all Malaysians.